Thom Miller is the head of a polygamous family. He has two wives and he is in the process of building them a huge house where each wife will have her own wing. Currently, they live in a smaller home, and each wife spends three nights with him before the other takes her turn.
Investigation discovered that the polygamist actually has 4 furious ex-wives and 12 children by 6 women.
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Thom is a former mafia enforcer who has become a pastor. His first wife is Belinda. Together they discussed being polygamous, but it was seven years into their marriage before they had 19-year-old Reba Kerfootruba join the family.
Reba’s family objected to their unconventional relationship. They did not want her to be with a man who was already married.
Her family has since changed their mind after they saw how happy Reba is now.
Being in a polygamous marriage can be tough. Sharing your partner can be upsetting, but Reba explains, “But I try not to get jealous and when it’s not my time with Thom I just try to occupy myself by going out with friends. The baby will have two moms, which I’m okay with.”
The trio are committed to sharing their life together and sharing responsibilities raising their baby. Belinda and Thom got to know Reba while volunteering at a soup kitchen. Thom is a friend of Reba’s family.
Reba married Thom seven years after his wedding ceremony to Belinda. Thom says, “The whole situation works for all three of us. I am the only one who is allowed to have more than one partner and both my wives understand and appreciate that. I think polygamy benefits everyone because my wives get to have a much larger family. It means they always have a friend with them.”