See the 10 Secrets For a Healthy and Long-Lasting Romantic Relationship

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When it comes to real life, there is no driving out to the sunset toward a happily ever after. We don’t meet a dashing prince or rescue a princess. Instead, we encounter people who can either change us for the better or bring out the worst of us.

Majority of relationships start with what we call the honeymoon phase, the stage where you tend to overlook the flaws of your partners as you are too absorbed in the feeling of being in love. You often base your perception about love on what you see in movies or what you read in books. But when you’re past this stage, you start encountering the hardships that come with being in a relationship.

Relationships take a lot of work and patience. You can ask your parents, friends, or anyone who has gone through the same phase, and they’ll tell you that it isn’t always rainbows and butterflies.There will be bumps, hurdles, and spikes along the road. Relationships are not built to be perfect, so they need to be fortified to be strong. Two people have to work hard to make it work, and when it does, you’ll know the outcome is better than any fictional romance.

The question on everyone’s mind is, what is the formula of finding true love?

While there is no specific formula in making a relationship work, let’s look at some ways you can find happiness with your partner:

Resolve Your Fights

A lot of people believe that arguments can break relationships. The truth is, it’s not the debate itself; it is not being able to resolve it that causes the fallout. A mature relationship involves people talking their issues over and focusing on how to avoid the same mistakes in the future.

Love Yourself

Don’t ever be afraid to succumb to self-love. You should always leave a big percentage of love for yourself. That way, it won’t be too hard for you to fall in love with somebody else after you were fooled by the person you thought was the right one. So when a relationship starts to break, you’ll have enough to put yourself back together.

Enjoy Time Spent Together As Well As Time Apart

It’s one thing to love yourself, and it’s another to allot time for yourself. You don’t have to do everything with your partner. Schedule separate activities like yoga time while he hits the gym. There is nothing wrong with spending time apart as long as you still find time to be together.

Get in Touch with Your Heart

When you get in touch with the love you have for yourself, you and your partner will feel it and bring you closer to each other. There is no greater bond than pure and honest love.

Do Not Use Your Partner as an Excuse to Feel Whole

As far as quotes about love go, you are often told that you’ll one day meet the person who’ll make you whole again. But you know what, it’s better to wait for that someone who will not make you whole but will love you wholly.

It Doesn’t Always Have to Be an Adventure

Yes, love is an adventure. But it doesn’t always come in a literal sense. There are moments when it’s just the two of you, enjoying each other’s company. It is in these times, like drinking a cup of coffee together or reading the morning paper, that you will realize that the ordinary things can make for extraordinary moments.

Love Selflessly

You should learn to reciprocate the love you receive. No relationship can work with one partner giving more than the other. But bear in mind that while love should be equal, it shouldn’t be forced.

Learn Something from Each Other 

There’s so much to learn about your lover. May it be a good thing or bad thing, be open-minded and accept it. It can be bad mannerisms or just that small mole on his lower back you hate to see—nevertheless, love it.

Stop Setting High Expectations

Some enter into a relationship hoping to find something that can fill in the gaps they have within them. If they don’t see it, they break down. Be realistic when it comes to your relationship. With that, you’re most likely to meet halfway and make it work.

Accept Them for Who They Really Are

Problems will occur if you see your partner as a representation of your own fairy-tale fantasies. When you get faced with the harsh reality that there are things about them that just don’t coincide with the ideals you have, you get hurt. As much as possible, see through them, know who they really are, accept them, and love them.

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