Finding one’s “true love” has become one of the most important agendas in a person’s life.
There is no denying that both culture and society has created the greatest influence in pushing the idea of the existence of a “soulmate”. In fact, this popular figure has become quite revered as one of the basis of determining one’s overall happiness for the rest of their lives.
However, at this day and age, the concept of “soulmate” seems to be a figment of one’s imagination in the distant past. Long gone are the days when dating has become the segue for a life long relationship. Yet no matter how dim the outlook maybe for this ironically technological age, the idea of “The One” is still not far from true.
If you are currently single or in a relationship, here are the top signs that tell you, that your significant other is “the One.”
1.) He is your number one supporter.
Whether it’s working for a big company or starting your own business, he understands and is willing to go all his way to support you. He will do everything in his power to help you even if he is a bit clueless at times. He is your number one cheerleader.
2.) He listens to you.
Another trait that you’ll notice from him is that he is willing to listen to you. Whether you are venting your frustrations over at work or an argument with a friend, he will turn an ear to you.
3.) He build his dream WITH you not FOR you.
Let’s face it, we all fall for the “I will do this” and “I will do that” for you line. And we find it sweet. You have to keep in mind that if you are aiming for a life long companion, every bit of details in your upcoming life together must be planned TOGETHER.
4.) He trusts you and vice versa.
Trust is an integral part in a relationship. So whether he’s going out with his friends, he lets you know. This gives you both some alone time that will make you miss each other even more.
5.) Date nights also involve chilling out at home.
Date nights does not necessarily mean you have to go out just to have fun. This is one of the best indications that this man is the One. Even cuddling or binge watching on your favorite television series is considered as a date.
6.) Your happiness is his happiness.
If he’s feeling down, you are also feeling down. You both have a bond that transcends beyond physical boundaries. If he feels that you are unhappy, he will everything to make you happy as he also feels it too.
7.) You are comfortable with each other.
Whether its popping your pimples or washing your hair, nothing grosses you out anymore. For you doing these things with him are quite natural.
8.) No problem is too big for you to solve.
As the popular saying goes, “two heads are better than one.” One of the biggest telltale signs that he is your soulmate is the fact that both of you are your own person. Nothing can stop you too from solving a simple problem whether it involves picking out the best color of your bed sheets or just changing the light bulb in the bathroom.
Nothing is impossible for the two of you.
9.) The little things are what matter to both of you.
We may find grand, romantic gestures as the sweetest things but the small ones are the ones that matter most. He takes every moment of every day to show his appreciation in his own little way. It may not involve a fancy dinner to an expensive restaurant, but never fails to surprise you with small gestures like opening the door for your or buying you your favorite drink when you had a bad day.
10.) He brings out the best version of yourself.
He accepts you for who you are. He encourages in every way possible. He makes you feel that you are the best person there is and he is more than willing to bring out the best side of you.
Find other telltale signs that you have found your soulmate in the clips below: